Porn

[JADezimar]

Well there Is not much I can add that is not in this article. I will not lie, I enjoy porn, but I think this article makes some good points.

http://newyorkmetro.com/nymetro/news/trends/n_9437/index1.html

[shutupandshave]

There were no pictures in that article :(

[Ummon]

Well, sex and love are always better than porn. I wouldn't suggest porn perusal, but I wouldn't even forbid it. It's just that porn has no relationship with healthy sexuality, it's just another thing entirely.

Is porn bad for your sexual health? Possibly. Is porn good for your sexual health? No.

[JADezimar]

I know suas. I was looking for porn when I stumbled accross it. (So I was also dissaointed :P)

[Larsson7]

Well, sex and love are always better than porn. I wouldn't suggest porn perusal, but I wouldn't even forbid it. It's just that porn has no relationship with healthy sexuality, it's just another thing entirely.

Is porn bad for your sexual health? Possibly. Is porn good for your sexual health? No.

What about couples who watch porn together?

[tom]

Would this happen to be Angel and Mrs Angel? :P

[ilia]

The most important thing to understand, is that porn is just that - it has nothing to do with real life, and it definately does not represent the way people make sex with one another. Hence the mass-confusion on the subject. My Dad explained this to me some- 5 years ago... ;)

Porn is a fantasy. Therefore, it is an exaggerated view of sex in comparison with the real life. Of course, there might be similarities under certain circumstances, but they quickly end, as when one finds himself near an appropriate female, one certainly uses his knowledge gained via porn, to boost his self confidence, and prepare himself for what is to come. All this bubbling about people wating their sex partners to perform as seen in porn videos, is bs. I am yet to see (or hear) someone who isn't some horny 12 y/o teenage think that porn = sex in real life.

In short: Porn is part-time sexual education, that is certainly useful if viewed right, but of course can be harmful if viewed wrong.

[Apocalypse]

*Knock Knock*

Busty blonde with next to fuck all on; 'Who iiiiiiiis it?

Dodgiest looking plumber in the world; 'It's the Plumbeeeeeeeeeer'

Busty blonde with next to fuck all on; 'I didn't call a plumbeeeeeeeeeer'

*que 'wah wah' guitar.

I love porn, it makes me laugh.

[Ummon]

Couples watching porn together already have a sexual problem generally. Porn is not about love and exchange of emotions, it's about possession and control, most of the times the woman is seen as a sexual object, the situations are studied to arouse male desire only, and so on.

I guess the only postive aspect is knowledge of sexual techniques, but those can be learned reading a book too. :oohoo:

Although not everyone has the same likes and dislikes, if a woman likes porn, why not. I know no such woman though. Sixteen years old girls do, out of transgression and curiosity, but women... mmmh, rarely IMHO.

I find that pornography is about the lack of sexuality and man-women relationships in our civilization, not the abundance thereof. Of course it's not because of porn that our society is sexually-deprived, porn is just filling the void left by normal sex.

My question: would a sexually-happy man watch porn? I guess not.

[Apocalypse]

Actually your missing 'voyeurism' Some people do get aroused by watching others bang at it while suffering no problems whatsoever in the bedroom department.