Kathervine
Feb 6, 2007, @ 02:08 PM
to you who has a Middle Child Syndrome
Have you been stuck with the middle children? What does it feel to be messing up with them?
I am always been a very patient person, but my patience is really dried up to the last drop by a middle child. I cannot explain but it always irritates me whenever MC brags every little thing MC does.
I am not jealous of MC's acheivements on whatever. I am just irriitated with the things MC is trying to do with me.
I just would like to let you know that if you are happy it does not neccessitate that I will not be happy. Whenever you are right, it does not imply that I am wrong!
SO you see, MC, life is not a mutually exclusive event. If you are in bliss, it does not mean that I will be miserable. Stop thinking that way. Stop using people to show that you are very much loved because that won't make me envy of you. If you are loved you don't have to brag about it because if it is true it will surely show!
I really pity you because despite the love that your family gives you, your friends give you (as you repeatedly iterating) you still need to be in the center, still need someone to listen to every word you say, still need to belittle others so that you can outstand, and you still make competition even to those who does not like to be in the center, and be in the spotlight.
Don't worry if that's what you want, you can have it all, I don't want that because without it, I am still happy anyway!
Just be mature! Only little children are exalted whenever they thought they are better than their playmate.
Have you been stuck with the middle children? What does it feel to be messing up with them?
I am always been a very patient person, but my patience is really dried up to the last drop by a middle child. I cannot explain but it always irritates me whenever MC brags every little thing MC does.
I am not jealous of MC's acheivements on whatever. I am just irriitated with the things MC is trying to do with me.
I just would like to let you know that if you are happy it does not neccessitate that I will not be happy. Whenever you are right, it does not imply that I am wrong!
SO you see, MC, life is not a mutually exclusive event. If you are in bliss, it does not mean that I will be miserable. Stop thinking that way. Stop using people to show that you are very much loved because that won't make me envy of you. If you are loved you don't have to brag about it because if it is true it will surely show!
I really pity you because despite the love that your family gives you, your friends give you (as you repeatedly iterating) you still need to be in the center, still need someone to listen to every word you say, still need to belittle others so that you can outstand, and you still make competition even to those who does not like to be in the center, and be in the spotlight.
Don't worry if that's what you want, you can have it all, I don't want that because without it, I am still happy anyway!
Just be mature! Only little children are exalted whenever they thought they are better than their playmate.